On a previous page I stressed how women like it when a man is funny.  On the other hand  sexual jokes can be offensive to women.   A friend of mine once asked me to post his picture to a dating web site.  He had a picture of himself with two beautiful women who had posed with him at a game conference.  I suggested to him that he post that picture since it would be funny.   I show the picture below with his face erased (but the same expression) so as to protect his privacy.

     A female friend of ours saw that we were posting the picture and told us that if she saw that picture she would never get in touch with the guy who posted it.  She said she would think he's a pig.  She said he should instead show a picture of himself patting a dog or playing with kids. 

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